Photographing this energetic engaged couple in a historic area of Dayton, Ohio was truly a pleasure. I was able to self-deprecate by saying many stupid things which in turn made the bride-to-be laugh a lot. I always make a quick judgment about how to get the couple to open up. I remember starting by saying “Hi. Are you nervous? Me too!” Now, I never get nervous doing photos but opening with the joke helped put them at ease. In this neighborhood, I always meet people at Omega Music.
Newly engaged couples such as this one do really well when they are up for anything. I love suggesting unusual backdrops (alleys), whispering silly things to each other, and shooting in the middle of the streets. Of course, I preface all of this with the caveat “if you don’t want to do something, just tell me.” I don’t make anyone jump off of things, and I never ask anyone to trespass. In this neighborhood, I have to be extra careful to make sure we stay out of people’s yards. I also try to keep my voice low so as not to disrupt someone at home.
Every Dayton engagement session and approach to the session is different. I go into a session with an idea of what I want to do or how I want to engage the client. Even though I have most likely met the couple before, how they are at the session may be different. Often, people are nervous, so I have to come up with topics to talk about. Talking about things that the couple is interested in helps them open up. I also spend a lot of time talking to them about the best aspects of the wedding venues.